Seri Parenting Dari Balik Bilik Suna Bagian 1 . Mental

Seri Parenting Dari Balik Bilik Suna
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Ketika berada di barisan terdepan untuk berhadapan langsung dengan orangtua calon pasien sunat, maka selain kelengkapan data dan fisik pasien biasanya pertanyaan standar saya adalah ..." yang minta sunat anaknya sendiri atau orangtua?"

Mengapa pertanyaan ini penting? Karena saya ingin menekankan agar proses ini adalah sesuatu yang diinginkan bersama , tidak hanya orangtua saja tapi juga anak.

Saya juga ingin agar orangtua faham bahwa faktor utama dari kelancaran proses sunat dan kecepatan kesembuhan pasca sunat adalah kesiapan mental anak terutama dan juga keluarga. Hehe sunat aja kok ribet,,

Seringkali yang semangat agar anaknya disunat adalah orangtua sehingga lupa untuk mengkondisikan anaknya bahkan cenderung memaksa.

Maka ada 2 tipe anak:

1.     Jika anak sudah rela dan menginginkan sunat sepenuh hatinya maka proses selama sunat dilakukan akan berjalan lancar, hanya memerlukan waktu 15-20 menit. Pasca sunat pun anak cenderung tenang, tidak rewel, dan tetap beraktivitas.

2.     Tapi bila anak belum siap, biasanya anak menjadi panik. Disentuh sedikit saja responnya langsung berteriak kesakitan, lalu orangtua ikut panik dan membentak anak agar tidak teriak. Hal ini akan semakin membuat ambang nyeri anak meningkat dan nyeri terasa berlebihan walaupun dokter tidak melakukan tindakan apapun.
Karena terlanjur respon tak terkendali, prosesi sunat bisa memanjang 45-60 menit dan banyak plus plus nya..melobi anak, menenangkan anak, dll. Pasca sunat, cenderung lebih rewel karena ingin merajuk dan dimanja. Akhirnya tampak luka tidak sembuh-sembuh.

Ketenangan orangtua dan keluarga yang serumah akan mempengaruhi proses sunat dan kesembuhan.
Jika tenang, maka orangtua akan woles saja dengan tahapan kesembuhan luka sunat.

Semoga bisa menjadi hikmah bersama untuk mempersiapkan buah hati kita dan mengantarkannya menjemput Sunnah Rasulnya :)

Yang mana tipe anak anda ketika sunat? :)